You know you have an amazing relationship when....

1. when you can speak the truth with out fear
2. when  the memory of the person brings a smile on your face.
3. when that person  , makes you  want to be a better human being with better self control.
4. when you can be sure of an honest opinion
5. when life seems simple and beautiful
6 when there is hope.
7. when there is no blame game, mind game or other manipulative games.
8. when you are yourself and there is no pressure to change
9. when you  feel free and  you want to be committed..
10. when there are no regrets and you know in your heart that you are with the right person and you never want to lose that  person from your life!

book to read

Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara- Directed by Zoya Akhtar

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSsSM2IR2LY&feature=related ( Tomatina festival.. I love it!)


A  movie that  speaks about fighting our fears....
conquering our insecurities... and finding our life....
what exactly are we living for?
is money everything?
what will we do with all the money and achievement if we have no one special  to share it with?
are we existing like animals ( breathing,  eating, drinking, sleeping, fucking!)or are we living?
are we living our  best life?
what exactly are we searching for?
are we killing our today in hopes of a better tomorrow????

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=LkpoBIseGAc


I realised that there are 2 kind of selfish  and stingy people...


1. Who live like beggars and expect others to be live  like beggars too!
2. Who live like kings and don't like to do spend even a coin for anybody except themselves!

The weight of water - anita shreve...

Another beautiful book!
I finished it in 2 days flat!
This book also has been made into a movie...
I think I wont see the movie.....
I want the images in my head to be as it is!
The book explores emotions .. something that Anita Shreve is an expert at.
jealousy, tender love, joy, murder, sex.....
the high point of story  for me, is the way , the writer has made a beautiful collage of past and present events.....
the twist at the end is the most   unexpected ...

must read for all fans of Anita Shreve....

All HE EVER WANTED - ANITA SHREVE..

This is second book that I read by the same author.

The first one being The Last Time They Met....

This book asks a lots ethical questions .

1. Should there  be  secrets between couples?
2. What exactly is the meaning of space in a relationship?
3. Can one partner love more than the other?
4. What is the status of the person who loves less? or does not love at all?
5. Can a relationship work ie. make both the concerned people happy and content, if both are
     using each other?
6. Is a co-dependent relationship healthy?

 One of my favourite quotes.....

"Sometimes it seems to me that all of life is a struggle to contain the natural impulses of the body and spirit, and that what we call character represents only the degree to which we are successful in this endeavor." 
— Anita Shreve (All He Ever Wanted)

the surrender....

I have these eyes.... 
they are useless to me......
as  I cant see you ...

	Chitra Singh - TAMANAO KE BEHLAWE MAIN .mp3
	Found at bee mp3 search engine

the scent of a woman

Yesterday I watched this Movie again.....

My favourite quotes from the movie

1.
Who the hell do ya think you're talking to? I've been around, ya know? There was a time I could see. And I have seen. Boys like these, younger than these. Their arms torn out, their legs ripped off. But there is nothing like the sight of an amputated spirit. There's no prostetic for that. You think you're merely sending this splendid foot solder back home to Oregon with tail between his legs, but I say you are executing his SOUL! 




2.
Makers of men, Creators of leaders. Be careful what kind of leaders you're producing here. I don't know if Charlie's silence here today is right or wrong. I'm not a judge or jury, but I can tell you this: He won't sell anybody out to buy his future! And that, my friends, is called integrity. That's called courage. Now that's the stuff leaders should be made of. Now I have come to the crossroads in my life. I always knew what the right path was. Without exception, I knew. But I never took it. You know why? It was too damn hard. Now here's Charlie. He's come to the crossroads. He has chosen a path. It's the right path. It's a path made of principle that leads to character. Let him continue on his journey. You hold this boy's future in your hands, committee. It's a valuable future. Believe me. Don't destroy it. Protect it. Embrace it. It's gonna make you proud one day, I promise you!