New Year Resolution...

 Love is kind, and patient...

This is what the Bible says..

I tried to do this...

I was  being kind , patient and appreciative of the people in my life...

I was doing what the Bible told me...

BUT.....

I realise  that the people to whom  I was being the embodiment of love did not deserve my love..

I was not being AUTHENTIC...

I was not being my real self....

My real self is a happy self, where there is reciprocation of feelings

I deserve the best..

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I CANT SETTLE FOR NOTHING BUT THE BEST!

If  I feel I am  being undervalued, unappreciated , 

and feel that  my needs are not respected and met....

I should ask myself  the following questions.

1. is this relationship working for me?

2 am I happy being kind patient and appreciative?

3. what am I appreciating?

4. can I take being not in connection ?

5.do I like an overdose of silence?

6 where is my self respect?
7. can i respect a person who doesn't respect me?