why it is not important to get married.

Its not important to get married...
basically human beings are not wired to be tied down...
human beings are born free.. free to roam the earth.... to travel, to discover, to LIVE...
and 99% of the time when people marry they forget to live... they do what everybody else is doing...there are things that HAVE to be done.... you do it for a while .. and then the yearning begins....
to break free..to connect to your soul... to discover your true self... to understand what life is all about...
why exactly are we on this planet??? is it to only to get married and have children of your own?..and do the things that society asks us to do? cant we make our rules????
according to me we are on this planet to be happy... to be in bliss ....to live life without fear......
I would love to adopt at least 6 kids... orphans, troubled kids, abused kids... would love to give deprived kids a future.....and it would be great to have a partner to share the joys of life and living...
BTW.. TODAY I WAS IN BLISS..I WAS SO HAPPY.... SO HAPPY....SO HAPPY......

REVIVE THE EMBERS

There are complexities in relationships.....
Of course there are!!!!!!!!!
I think every human being loves the rush of a new meeting, a new friendship and a new relationship.
One makes so many efforts in the start, invests so much - time, energy , emotions, money.
and when they feel secure in the relationship, what do they do?
They withdraw all that they have invested...they have no time, no energy , emotions become deflated and they start to think that money is not to be wasted eg. on flowers, gifts, fine dining, wine etc.
The result:-relationship becomes boring...it becomes routine...there is no thrill...its like old furniture that we see everyday and think of discarding, but then again since its lying there quiet and serves the purpose we keep it.
Maybe we are lazy to discard and get a new one, maybe its become a habit...
its so difficult to unlearn old habits and relearn new ones... it takes effort....

SO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION...HOW TO KEEP THE FIRE ALIVE ???????