a happy ending....

Most people want happy endings to their life....

They are unrealistic about their expectations....

People want good job, good partner, good people around them, good name, they want to do good for society....etc, etc,

They want........ they WANT and they want more...............( including me,Im not a saint!!!!)

but really do people know what they want?I find most people are in a state of confusion...............( including me)

human beings are so confused......perpetually....

THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE... na??

Some pics......From My Trip To My Home Town....

bananas....
the crowing cock

in the garden......
white goat...
white hen...
the tall coconut trees..........
the rice fields....
the oldest man of our village can you believe he`s 103!!!!

some thoughts..on the hyderbad conference..

National level conferences are always very important and informative.

The Chief guest was Ms. Laxmi Vijaykumar, ( member of WHO) and renowned psychiatrist.

She spoke about the findings in the world about suicides and befriending, which was really enlightening.

I was amazed to know that though they spoke about the world, there is no study conducted in Africa regarding mental health and suicides.

when I questioned about it, they told me that Africa being in the process of developing physically has not been concerned too much with mental health programmes.

so I went to the befrienders worldwide website and found that hardly any African countries have help for mental health.

http://www.befrienders.org/

I feel its very important that people in general realise the importance of having a sound mind in a sound body. Both work together to make a healthy human being.

anyways,

Right from the moment WE( the director and two volunteers) stepped into the venue, which was Hotel Central Court,we were pampered.

The hospitality of the Hyderabadis was really COMMENDABLE.
The conference was a wonderful amalgamation of information, interaction and entertainment.
The panel discussion on maintaining healthy relationships was also an eye opener.
I realised the huge work put in by ROSHNI .Kudos to them!!
The level of commitment and motivation has to be seen to be believed.
I came back feeling inspired to do more for my centre.

It renewed and made me think why I had joined this organisation in the first place.

IN HYDERABAD...

Im posting the pics, will write about it later....

WORLD AIDS DAY!

I FOUND THESE IMAGES , FROM A RESTAURANT CALLED CABBAGES AND CONDOMS, IN THAILAND!!! (I thought it really COOOOOL!)

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Security is mainly Superstition.

It does not exist in nature,nor do the children of men as a whole experience it.

Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure.

Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.

To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits
in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable.

HELEN KELLER

the final step...

The meeting was thrilling, exciting,done for a lark!

as the meeting becomes more and more frequent,

the man and woman discover, that,

they are compatible in many ways.....

there are many flaws in both of them ....

of course!there are no perfect men and women....

they realise...

life is beautiful....

so, the the final step was taken...

after a lot of deliberation, lot of thought...

they became one...

in complete surrender,

absolutely , in full control over their emotions...

without regret...

but..the futility of it..is something that the woman did not consider.....

she gave herself...to this man.... mind and body with trust and love.....

expecting nothing in return....

after all its true that man uses affection for his needs and woman gives in to the mans need to gain his affection...

the perception of man and woman is different....

there can never be complete equality between a man and a woman...

NEVER!!!