can u teach??

Nobody can teach you how to love.....
its inborn.... its natural....
everyone has it in them...
only thing is that they should have the will to explore the possibilities.
why should I tell u how to love me....
u should know..if u say that u r mine.. and I'm yrs.. shouldn't you know?
what I feel???

Today....

Today I was very angry....I don't usually lose my temper....I become sad, or take the blame on myself...I think that I'm silly or stupid...and feel that whatever has happened is because I was inadequate....
I often think that I'm a failure.
I am now learning that many things that happened in my life is not because of me but because of bad choices, and other peoples mistakes, people who controlled my life....
Im learning this now...its late in life but its not too late....
I forgive people easily...esp. the ones whom I love very much.....
maybe that is the reason why people take advantage of me...
but I'm weak where love is concerned....
I WANT THE PERSON I LOVE TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS......
it makes me happy too....

but today I was angry, because someone broke a promise....
for me, promises are important...
I believe that one should not make promises that one cant keep....
I usually keep all my promises, even difficult ones or else I don't make them....its better that way....don't say anything that u don't mean...

when small promises are not kept, doesn't it say something about the integrity of the person?
it may not be a big deal ...but for me it is.......

I feel small things are so important...small promises,
a sweet email, a caring sms, a loving call.....doesnt that make your day brighter?
what is life if YOU cant make your beloved happy.....simply happy????

truly madly deeply-savage garden

I'll be your dream
I'll be your wish
I'll be your fantasy.
I'll be your hope
I'll be your love

Be everything that you need.
I love you more with every breath
Truly madly deeply do..
I will be strong I will be faithful
'Cos I'm counting on a new beginning.
A reason for living.
A deeper meaning.


I want to stand with you on a mountain.
I want to bathe with you in the sea.
I want to lay like this forever.
Until the sky falls down on me...


And when the stars are shining brightly
In the velvet sky,
I'll make a wish
Send it to heaven
Then make you want to cry..
The tears of joy
For all the pleasure and the certainty.
That we're surrounded
By the comfort and protection of..
The highest power.
In lonely hours.
The tears devour you..

I want to stand with you on a mountain,
I want to bathe with you in the sea.
I want to lay like this forever,
Until the sky falls down on me...


Oh can't you see it baby?
You don't have to close your eyes
'Cos it's standing right before you.
All that you need will surely come...

love!!!!!!!!!!

Love is patient.
Love is kind.
Love isn't jealous. .........
it does not boast, it is not proud.

the intensity of love cannot be measured.....
its gentle and tender...
it forgives easily...
love is beautiful.....
nothing happens as a coincidence....
everything has a reason...
we have to find the reason.....its our call.....

reaction formation... a defence mechanism

After a night of introspection, I think I use this mechanism when I feel anxiety....
it is a process in which the ego( our subconscious) tends to come out with opposite reactions to the existing anxiety producing one.

Im a human being with a heart.... and heart can be broken....
so how do i protect my heart???
i know when the time will come i will be heart broken............

no wonder people liked this song....

You must understand though the touch of your hand
Makes my pulse react
That it's only the thrill of boy meeting girl
Opposites attract
It's physical
Only logical
You must try to ignore that it means more than that

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

It may seem to you that I'm acting confused
When you're close to me
If a tend to look dazed I've read it someplace
I've got cause to be
There's a name for it
There's a phrase that fits
But whatever the reason you do it for me

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

I've been taking on a new direction
But I have to say
I've been thinking about my own protection
It scares me to feel this way

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a sweet old fashioned notion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken