job satisfaction....

What exactly is job satisfaction?
Everyone says we can  get job satisfaction  if  we  love what we do and if  our passion  becomes our profession,
but is it possible? for everyone?
Sometimes we know that, we are in a dead end job where there is no hope.
The leader is  unimaginative, and resistant  to change and expects everyone to be like him/her.
Why  do we continue in such a sad job? why do we wait to get a better job before we leave this one?
What exactly is security? Is there security in any job?

I used to love my job I still do, but the boss is horrible and I know I am unhappy here.. I know there is no scope of change since even the owners need puppets whom they can play with.
They have a mindless fool whom they can order around  and who in turn orders his subordinates around . Its a cycle.

I know in my heart that ,only if I quit this damn job will I be able to find space for something better. I have achieved everything  of value late in life. Life is teaching me patience.

Its true, slow and steady wins the race!

friendship week...

Who is a friend?

According to me, a friend is someone who loves you unconditionally , is non-judgemental AND KEEPS YOUR SECRETS SAFE....

A friend goes out of his way to help you and make you safe and happy...

A friend  understands your needs, your need to talk, connect and also your need for silence.


Friends dont change according to situations...

Friends dont leave you alone  when they know you are sad

Friends are not selfish....

Friends call for no reason, just to see if you are alright....

it  is said that we cant choose our relatives but we can certainly choose our friends.....

You know you have an amazing relationship when....

1. when you can speak the truth with out fear
2. when  the memory of the person brings a smile on your face.
3. when that person  , makes you  want to be a better human being with better self control.
4. when you can be sure of an honest opinion
5. when life seems simple and beautiful
6 when there is hope.
7. when there is no blame game, mind game or other manipulative games.
8. when you are yourself and there is no pressure to change
9. when you  feel free and  you want to be committed..
10. when there are no regrets and you know in your heart that you are with the right person and you never want to lose that  person from your life!

book to read

Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara- Directed by Zoya Akhtar

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSsSM2IR2LY&feature=related ( Tomatina festival.. I love it!)


A  movie that  speaks about fighting our fears....
conquering our insecurities... and finding our life....
what exactly are we living for?
is money everything?
what will we do with all the money and achievement if we have no one special  to share it with?
are we existing like animals ( breathing,  eating, drinking, sleeping, fucking!)or are we living?
are we living our  best life?
what exactly are we searching for?
are we killing our today in hopes of a better tomorrow????

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=LkpoBIseGAc


I realised that there are 2 kind of selfish  and stingy people...


1. Who live like beggars and expect others to be live  like beggars too!
2. Who live like kings and don't like to do spend even a coin for anybody except themselves!

The weight of water - anita shreve...

Another beautiful book!
I finished it in 2 days flat!
This book also has been made into a movie...
I think I wont see the movie.....
I want the images in my head to be as it is!
The book explores emotions .. something that Anita Shreve is an expert at.
jealousy, tender love, joy, murder, sex.....
the high point of story  for me, is the way , the writer has made a beautiful collage of past and present events.....
the twist at the end is the most   unexpected ...

must read for all fans of Anita Shreve....

All HE EVER WANTED - ANITA SHREVE..

This is second book that I read by the same author.

The first one being The Last Time They Met....

This book asks a lots ethical questions .

1. Should there  be  secrets between couples?
2. What exactly is the meaning of space in a relationship?
3. Can one partner love more than the other?
4. What is the status of the person who loves less? or does not love at all?
5. Can a relationship work ie. make both the concerned people happy and content, if both are
     using each other?
6. Is a co-dependent relationship healthy?

 One of my favourite quotes.....

"Sometimes it seems to me that all of life is a struggle to contain the natural impulses of the body and spirit, and that what we call character represents only the degree to which we are successful in this endeavor." 
— Anita Shreve (All He Ever Wanted)