Friday, 18 November 2011

Beauty of a Woman...

A little boy asked his mother, " Why are you crying?"
"Because... I'm a woman", she told him. " I don't understand", he said.
His mum just hugged him and said, " And you never will"..

Later the little boy asked his father, " Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "
All women cry for no reason" was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God; when God got on the phone, the man said, " God, why women cry so easily?"

God said, "When I made women she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort.

 I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times come from the people she loves.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

 I gave her the sensitivity to love her partner / children under any and all circumstances, even when they have hurt  her very badly.

  I gave her strength to understand her partner  through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

 I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never hurts his woman , but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.

Sunday, 13 November 2011

The reality and the illusion...

I love you  with my body and soul..
I love you for you  are you..
I see the inner you ,
I see your need to be free.
I understand.
But,
I have faith in my connection,
I have patience,
I have hope,
I know you are mine..
only mine..
I know, nobody can love you as I can.
Nobody can take my dreams from me...
I will live with you in my dreams.
Thank You for everything,
my love, my baby!



Saturday, 5 November 2011

The importance of having a family

I realised the importance of having a family recently. 
Its true that family sometimes can be very intimidating esp. if you are like me. I am a non-conformist and love my  personal space.

But its also true that, sometimes when we are blinded  by love or ambition, its the members of our  family that give us the right perspective  as a third person.


It feels like shit to know that your family was right .... right from the beginning and that I was wrong. (The hurt is of course because of my BIG EGO its not easy to admit that I was wrong.)
But again  on the positive side it feels wonderful that I can count on my family to help me with the right perspective.

 Life is to live and learn and not make the same mistakes again.
Life is beautiful.....



Thursday, 3 November 2011

Sound Of Music..

After many false starts I finally found the time to watch the Movie  THE  SOUND OF MUSIC,
it was  the 100th time I  was watching  (kidding).. every time I watch this movie , it makes me believe in the beauty of love.  The movie has memorable songs, I go into nostalgic mode as all the songs were taught to me as a child by my music teacher.

.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbQSAdU4Qb4&feature=related

Wednesday, 26 October 2011

October 2010 -October 2011

Sweet October,
you come with so much hope..
the autumn that turns into
lovely winter and then spring again...
life is such...
hope, is what makes life bearable...
and change is what is constant...
can love change its colours?
can love be constant?



Monday, 24 October 2011

NPD....

 I never never knew that NPD is a major  personality disorder and i am shocked that I that so many people are suffering from this .The worst part is that they dont know what to do and how to get help......
 
Song of the Male Narcissist

When I said that I would leave you
I meant "Don't let me go"
and instead of saying yes to you
I said - I'll let you know

I put myself above you
so you'd think me some great prize
and blamed my faults upon you
all because of my false pride

So I know you have good reason
for complaining like you do
because I never really thought of you
just 'to mine own ego' was I true 

But the truth is I'm embarrassed
for how badly I've behaved
and for being such a coward
I really am ashamed

Cause I don't want you to guess
how helpless that I feel
and that I don't know how to save you
even though my love is real

There is so much I have to learn
and if you're needing proof
just look at how I twist and turn
and struggle with the truth

I cannot be your hero
and I don't always understand
and really I just want you to see
the child within this man

I'm so scared that you will leave me
when you see my acts a sham
and that I gave up long ago
on being loved for who I am

I need a guiding hand in life
and need you to be strong
I need you to be virtuous
and let me tag along 



Set me goals I can accomplish
and praise me where you can
not for the act - just for the steps
I take to become a man

Cause I still have tantrums like a baby
and think I must get my way
and I don't know how to listen
and I haven't learned to pray

So love and please don't leave me
and help me learn to get along,
but stop crying and getting angry
cause it's really you who's strong

To make me feel bad won't change things
cause I'm already wracked with shame.
and sometimes you must say "no" for me
and kindly say my name

and if I'm being brutish
you must make me face the law
You must show concern with courage
if you want my heart to thaw

Cause I won't respect a victim
and you won't beat me at that game
and if you really want to tame me
you can't be scared of public shame

Cause it will take men with integrity
that I squarely have to face
you see I'm craving a strong father
and you'll never take his place

And I'm trying hard to trust you
which I don't know how to do
and I hope you can forgive me
and I hope that we're not through 



courtesy:http://www.narcissismdailymirror.com/2009/11/blog-post.html

Saturday, 22 October 2011

past present and future..

Past ,Present and Future are all connected.....
What is time? Can one really define it?
Our life on this earth, is limited... but.. our energy lives on... the more we concentrate on little things, the more happy. we can be.......  it is the  opposite of what is taught to us...

We are told to ignore the little things and concentrate on the bigger scheme of things.... but are we really equipped to understand the bigger things that happen on this universe????
as we learn and live we realise how little we really are... how small and invisible our life is......this concept  is something that I understood  recently.....

The secret to living fully and blissfully is to understand that small kindness, play a very important role in our lives....hurting others, by words or deeds, will always boomerang.....

Love and  forgiveness will help us to live a stress free life..