Saturday, 21 January 2012

Theodore `s Mama

I don't know Theodore`s Mama`s name,
because I never asked her!
But I did dream about her yesterday,
I dreamt of  her lovely rooms,
and her small garden full of herbs!
She fed me every  day that I was with her,
with chapathi- bread and sun-dried  Onion chutney!
She made wonderful coffee and generously shared it with me every afternoon!
She kept her home clean and organised,
dusting, mopping and wiping all the time!
She recycled everything from plastic bags, to oil cans, to charcoal, to water,  to food!
She was an environmentalist!
She always had something to give the poor kids that came to her door!
Some people you  can never forget, though you may never meet  them again!
But you love them and cherish their memory and bless them with your heart and wish them happiness always!

Happy new year

I was absent from this blog for more than a month....

Now I  come with a new thought...

I need to be more focused about myself.... I need to be selfish......



Sunday, 11 December 2011

inspiring movie--the bucket list.

When I saw the  Bucket List , I loved MORGAN  FREEMAN`S  character.
I like the 2 questions.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2fHdsI7H8EE
It inspires me to live a life of joy and peace. To be a good person and live life fully without any regrets.
As we live on , we are also dying..... everyday we are dying......there is an end to our life ..that is the truth.
Meanwhile, we need to live our best life!

Thursday, 8 December 2011

RING OUT THE OLD, RING IN THE NEW- Tennyson

Ring out the old, ring in the new,
Ring, happy bells, across the snow;
The year is going, let him go;
Ring out the false, ring in the true.


Ring in the valiant man and free,
The larger heart, the kindlier hand;
Ring out the darkness of the land,
Ring in the Christ that is to be.

Saturday, 26 November 2011

Thursday, 24 November 2011

Importance Of Close Relationships- A Study.

What benefits do people get from having a close, healthy relationship?


For starters, being in a romantic relationship provides many physical benefits – individuals in close relationships live longer and enjoy better health outcomes than people who lack such relationship.


This gain is undoubtedly due to the fact that people in close relationships have a built-in emotional and physical support system – someone to care for them and provide comfort in times of need. Not only do people in close relationships live longer, but they report being happier and more satisfied with life than individuals who fail to find a  loving companion

Second, having a romantic relationship provides many resource benefits. Sharing resources with another person is a great way to get ahead in life. Two people working together can live better than one. When you have someone close to share and trade resources with, you come out ahead.


Third, people in romantic relationships receive more social support; that is, having someone who is attentive to your needs and concerns. Having social support translates into many other beneficial outcomes. People who know that someone supports them make better decisions in life with less stress and anxiety.


Fourth, having a companion often makes life more enjoyable. Having someone with whom to share life’s little things, like walking the dog, watching TV, eating meals is important; it enriches the experience itself and people report having a higher overall quality of life when they have someone to share it with.


Fifth, relationships are useful because partners monitor each other’s potentially destructive behavior and make attempts to stop each other from doing things that may be harmful. For example, individuals in close relationships often try to get their romantic partners to quit smoking, drink less, curb their drug use and so on.


Finally, people in romantic relationships have sex more often than single people do. Having sex on a regular basis is important for one’s well-being.

All told, romantic relationships provide enormous benefits to people lucky enough to find someone to love and someone who loves them in return.

 courtesy...www.truthaboutdeception.com