There are complexities in relationships.....
Of course there are!!!!!!!!!
I think every human being loves the rush of a new meeting, a new friendship and a new relationship.
One makes so many efforts in the start, invests so much - time, energy , emotions, money.
and when they feel secure in the relationship, what do they do?
They withdraw all that they have invested...they have no time, no energy , emotions become deflated and they start to think that money is not to be wasted eg. on flowers, gifts, fine dining, wine etc.
The result:-relationship becomes boring...it becomes routine...there is no thrill...its like old furniture that we see everyday and think of discarding, but then again since its lying there quiet and serves the purpose we keep it.
Maybe we are lazy to discard and get a new one, maybe its become a habit...
its so difficult to unlearn old habits and relearn new ones... it takes effort....
SO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION...HOW TO KEEP THE FIRE ALIVE ???????
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