we have to make choices
always the choice is ours...
but its true, when we are on the mountain,
we dont realise how big it is or how the world views it...
same way when we are in love, we dont see the flaws...
we just feel that it is the right thing to happen....
that one person is the right partner for us....
but, we have to understand that it may be really wrong....
its only when we have enough time to sit and intropsect,
we realize that this is not what i wanted....
its not enough that a person is intelligent....
or is a big success or goodlooking...
we can be attracted to beauty ...
but we have live with the character......
so its not enough to be attracted , its important if there is compatibility....
its important to know certain things if u are planning along term relationship....
ask yourself the following questions.....
does he/she value you and your emotions?
does he/she comfort you when you are sad?
does he/she think your feelings are silly?
does he/she care for your family and freinds?
does he/ she encourage you to go ahead in life?
does he/ she have strong views on religion , politics, policies?
does he/she spend time with you?
does he /she measure success with money?
does he / she make you happy?
does he /she lie to avoid confrontations?
1 comment:
Ask a million questions and you can still make a wrong choice 'coz decisions are made with your heart and not the brain. And this 'heart' is a funny thing indeed!
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