Tear drops are like Dew drops,

condensed crystals of water

ready to spill over,

when nothing else helps.

one salted, one sweet

one hot and the other cold

tear drops like dewdrops...

its only after a great struggle that

both are born

so let them be!

let them be!

its great!

I MISSED U BLOG......( LOL)

A blog can be a saviour for lonely people,

it can be a punching bag, a sounding box.

for me my blog is a place where I write and feel a sense of catharsis.

its a purging out of emotions.

the last few weeks have been like an eye opener.

but the most important lessons I learnt are.....

1.WE HAVE TO KEEP OUR EMOTIONS IN CHECK.

our feelings are precious and should not be disclosed to people who do not appreciate us.

especially, the most beautiful feeling of LOVE.

my questions to myself are.....

is it possible to love someone who does not love you?

how long can one go on without love?

2. MIND IS MORE POWERFUL THAN BODY.

self respect is the most important thing.

if u lose respect for yourself who else will respect you?

3. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.

Yes! I cry when people are mean to me.......it makes me sad and lonely.

Im a human being I have a heart. I give myself completely with all my flaws.

I know I am good....Im pure and beautiful.

4. THE ONE WHO LOSES ME IS THE LOSER.

I have me so I am the winner always!

when the eye gets opened.....

life presents us with numerous situations....

we have to make choices

always the choice is ours...

but its true, when we are on the mountain,

we dont realise how big it is or how the world views it...

same way when we are in love, we dont see the flaws...

we just feel that it is the right thing to happen....

that one person is the right partner for us....

but, we have to understand that it may be really wrong....

its only when we have enough time to sit and intropsect,

we realize that this is not what i wanted....

its not enough that a person is intelligent....

or is a big success or goodlooking...

we can be attracted to beauty ...

but we have live with the character......

so its not enough to be attracted , its important if there is compatibility....

its important to know certain things if u are planning along term relationship....

ask yourself the following questions.....

does he/she value you and your emotions?

does he/she comfort you when you are sad?

does he/she think your feelings are silly?

does he/she care for your family and freinds?

does he/ she encourage you to go ahead in life?

does he/ she have strong views on religion , politics, policies?

does he/she spend time with you?

does he /she measure success with money?

does he / she make you happy?

does he /she lie to avoid confrontations?

the sorrow and the pleasure....

Im reminded of a hymn( a song sung in the church)

EVERY THING ON THIS EARTH HAS A TIME....

TIME TO SOW, TIME TO REAP......

TIME FOR SORROW, TIME FOR PLEASURE.....

EVERYTHING HAPPENS IN ITS TIME........

Im comforted by these lines....

I feel that all beautiful things happens when one gives it time......

love knows not its depth until the hour of seperation...

there is nothing more to say...
ive said it all.....
ive given my wisdom to you, my love..
keep yourself safe and good....
in your body resides your soul...
keep it pure and innocent..........
love needs no words anymore..
its a feeling , an awareness....
its a gift....
its a treasure...

some things to remember....

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately.. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice

TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.

Love is....

Love is trust and faith, in all circumstances.

Love is never giving up.

Even in the most devastating conditions, never doubt the power of will, never doubt the human capacity for great change.

This I believe, I believe that people must love, unconditionally.