on second thoughts...

Everyone needs to have second thoughts....
They must have !!!!
It is the right of a human to HAVE second thoughts...
Why should we be rigid and stick to our guns???
Why cant we change our minds?

so what if we hurt someone on the way?
so what if we break someone's heart?
so what if we LOSE PERSPECTIVE?
so what if we, fear commitment...

we are protecting our interests...
we are survivors..
we are the ones who may get hurt,
we change our minds...
we are phobic,
we are anxious..
we are dead already,
buried in our doubts
lost in our insecurities,
we forgot to live
we search,
we float,
we exist
like
STONES..

Today I was happy....

happiness is the  state of your  mind......

why do i get angry???

mostly i am in control of my emotions...
but sometimes i do get angry...
esp if certain actions, words or behavior is not justified...
sometimes, people make statements with or without realizing the magnanimity of its manifestation..
i hope i know how to deal with the situation.

INTELLIGENCE...

This waiting is so beautiful...

Ive  always believed that life is a journey,and the final destination is of course Death!

We have to LEARN to  enjoy the JOURNEY, the process of meeting people, being in difficult situations and adapting to our environment.

Human beings then become wise with experience and become enlightened.


Enlightenment according to me, is the knowledge that NOTHING REALLY MATTERS.


Intelligence is knowing ourselves and living our lives on our own terms,  in an harmonious way.


I find many people want to live their lives on their own terms, but end up hurting the people who love them the most.
The trick is to learn how to reach a compromise, with people whom you care.I know that its a struggle. Its an everyday struggle.Nevertheless, its really rewarding to live  peacefully and blissfully in the environment of our choice, with people who love us.


There are 7 types of intelligence
academic, emotional, musical spatial, kinesthetic,interpersonal and intrapersonal.
According to me the most important one is the last one....


I know that!

another friendship day...

Happy!

This blog has been witness to the bonding among friends...
how we were three.. and now we are 2!
human beings, move in packs...like wolves or lions or elephants...
we cant live in isolation...
if YOU find one person in Your lifetime who listens to you, without any judgement,
then you better give your everything to keep that person in your life..


life is beautiful with friends!