Sunday 9 January 2011

New Year Resolution...

 Love is kind, and patient...
This is what the Bible says..
I tried to do this...
I was  being kind , patient and appreciative of the people in my life...

I was doing what the Bible told me...
BUT.....
I realise  that the people to whom  I was being the embodiment of love did not deserve my love..
I was not being AUTHENTIC...
I was not being my real self....
My real self is a happy self, where there is reciprocation of feelings
I deserve the best..
I CANT SETTLE FOR NOTHING BUT THE BEST!

If  I feel I am  being undervaluedunappreciated 
and feel that  my needs are not respected and met....

I should ask myself  the following questions.

1. is this relationship working for me?
2 am I happy being kind patient and appreciative?
3. what am I appreciating?
4. can I take being not in connection ?
5.do I like an overdose of silence?
6 where is my self respect?
7. can i respect a person who doesn't respect me?