Decision

A choice made between alternative courses of action in a situation of uncertainty.= Decision.

Boasting..........

The line between healthy pride and excessive boastfulness may be very fine, and difficult to pinpoint. But one thing is for sure: we know when we have had enough of someone’s incessant bragging, and their inability (or unwillingness) to take subtle hints.

One of my friends who got married recently, has become a boaster. She keeps telling me stuff about how great her husband is.About the gifts he buys her,  his salary,  his  good looks and his powers in bed.

She has nothing else to say.I have been listening and listening .. but now it has  become difficult for me to endure her boasting.

Psychology tells me that boasting is usually done by people with low self esteem and those who have lost their identity and are insecure. They are, in fact trying to console themselves and are  validating themselves.They crave attention and are very sad inside! I want to help her, but I cant stand her boasting.....

This is what the LORD says: "Let not the wise man boast of his wisdom or the strong man boast of his strength or the rich man boast of his riches,

Signs that he`s not into you...

I finished reading this book in one working day.....2 hours in the morning and 2 hours in the evening.
Its a book for every woman, because its speaks directly to them, its a book that cares about women`s feelings and understands women... Amen!!!
Everyone lives in Hope......
But  its good to realise that some situations are hopeless....
its good to know that you are wasting time and energy....
here are some suggestions from  this book.....

Standard Suggestions


I will not go out with a man who hasn’t asked me out first.
I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone.
I will not date a man who isn’t sure he wants to date me.
I will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable.
I will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable.
I will not be with a man who’s afraid to talk about our future.
I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me.
I will not date a man who is married.
I will not be with a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.

Tizita

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I found this in a beautiful book CUTTING FOR STONE by Abraham Verghese.

I Finished reading this book in 12 hours

I got it as an ebook, or else I might have read  IT the whole night in bed!

A story about different cultures, emotions stories of human suffering.
A book about losing and finding true love, about betrayals, sex and torture.
A story about twins , Marion and Shiva.
A story about Doctors and Medicines of longing and nostalgia, about TIZITA.

job satisfaction....

What exactly is job satisfaction?
Everyone says we can  get job satisfaction  if  we  love what we do and if  our passion  becomes our profession,
but is it possible? for everyone?
Sometimes we know that, we are in a dead end job where there is no hope.
The leader is  unimaginative, and resistant  to change and expects everyone to be like him/her.
Why  do we continue in such a sad job? why do we wait to get a better job before we leave this one?
What exactly is security? Is there security in any job?

I used to love my job I still do, but the boss is horrible and I know I am unhappy here.. I know there is no scope of change since even the owners need puppets whom they can play with.
They have a mindless fool whom they can order around  and who in turn orders his subordinates around . Its a cycle.

I know in my heart that ,only if I quit this damn job will I be able to find space for something better. I have achieved everything  of value late in life. Life is teaching me patience.

Its true, slow and steady wins the race!

friendship week...

Who is a friend?

According to me, a friend is someone who loves you unconditionally , is non-judgemental AND KEEPS YOUR SECRETS SAFE....

A friend goes out of his way to help you and make you safe and happy...

A friend  understands your needs, your need to talk, connect and also your need for silence.


Friends dont change according to situations...

Friends dont leave you alone  when they know you are sad

Friends are not selfish....

Friends call for no reason, just to see if you are alright....

it  is said that we cant choose our relatives but we can certainly choose our friends.....