Wednesday, 30 July 2008

PALLAVI

Pallavi is a friend of mine with whom i share a love -hate relationship...
her son suffers from thalassemia and i feel tremendous sympathy for her..
but its difficult for me to provide sympathy on a everyday basis....and so those days become difficult for both of us....
i know she likes me very much.(even though i ignore her many a times when she looks at me for sympathy), she comes to me with a huge smile the next day.
what i really hate about her is this need for constant attention and her need to talk about her life which is devoid of any joy..she feels she is a VICTIM...
i feel so helpless ....ive tried being indifferent, neglectful.....sulking..but she just doesnt get the message.
what do i do?

4 comments:

shampa said...

Hmmm.. listen to her when she is around, think other thoughts when you are not with her..

Do not let your mind dwell on her thoughts... she will never know how you are feeling as she is totally absorbed in her own situation so its futile to send her any message..

Be with her when she is around, pray for her.. and bless her with all your heart. You are doing your best, don't get distressed...

roshni said...

thanks dear!
and i think nowadays ur my only loyal reader!

Sir Hubertus Ponsonby said...

i resent that! :p
i may have been temporarily absconding, but i am still loyal, ok ?:)

victims are damn tough to motivate. its almost impossible to get them out of their mindset.

maybe the odd firm mail telling her to look at all that she does have going for her may help?

roshni said...

oh! crazy man!
sorry...u r now one of the most important readers.....